Saying sorry
February 12th, 2008 by Ingrid Cliff
No business gets it right 100% of the time. There will be times when mistakes are made, emails not responded to, promises made and not kept and customer service given that is less than optimal.
It is what you do with those mistakes that makes the difference. If you ignore the mistake, pretend it didn’t happen or try and blame the customer you create more problems for yourself. What could simply have been resolved at a lower level gets blown up in the mind of the customer and they escalate the problem or just take their business elsewhere (and complain about you to all of their friends).
But it doesn’t have to be that way. If you train all of your staff that mistakes happen. that it is a fact of life and they have discretion to resolve the problem to a certain level then you can turn a potentially damaging situation around.
Work out within your business what will be your policy if someone complains. If the person complains to an employee – allow the employee to acknowledge the person’s feelings, to apologise that your actions have caused the person to feel that way and ask how the person would like to have the matter resolved. Often all the person wants is to be heard.
If there is expenditure needed to resolve the matter and it is above the employees financial delegation level, empower the employee that it is OK to contact you with a code word to say that the matter has to be dealt with straight away. You need to act and resolve complaints within one business day. Let it linger and you are creating further problems.
Government is a business just like any other. I worked in Government for 15 years and I know mistakes are made – the people in Government are human. They may be acting from the best of intent, but when they forget they are there to serve the greater community and believe they know best for other people – that is when mistakes are made.
Over-responsibility in all forms creates hurt and pain. If you try and run someone else’s life down to the smallest detail you are not allowing them to grow and learn. Your job is not to run a life, but to grow a life.
It is for that reason I totally believe we need to say sorry to the stolen generations. We as a people made major mistakes over generations and now have to live with the consequences. Discrimination in all its forms – both direct and indirect limits us as a society and limits the creative potential of our future.
I am proud that Kevin Rudd is finally formally apologising tomorrow for what has been done in the past. Whatever your politics – it is simply the right thing to do.
I urge everyone to watch the address live and allow your employees to watch the event as paid time (hey if you can watch a horse race in November, you can watch history in the making).
I also ask you to reflect on where your business and you personally may have also unwittingly or knowingly caused hurt and offence to someone else. Take this time to work out how you can say sorry for the hurt you have caused and plan for how you will deal with this in the future.
Until next time
Ingrid Cliff
Heart Harmony
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